This prompt format tends to work nicely, it seems like even though it wasn't exactly what was used for training, it works well and mixes knowledge from dolphin training and training on my small dataset.

I put this in KoboldCPP Memory:

<|im_start|>system
A collaborative discussion between Pupil and Teacher.<|im_end|>

Start sequence: <|im_start|>Pupil:

Stop sequence: Teacher: